massage
massage --- to put it crudely, its the same as having sex. haha. there is some pleasure derived from that activity. obviously, the one that is benefiting the most from it would be the one receiving the massage. this is like jing ye le ye. people giving massage can also achieve satisfaction if the person receiving it is enjoying it. woot!
anyway, giving a massage isn't confined to the shoulder and neck area. you can't restrict yourself to just that area.. you got to move around. so blatantly, i went to seek some pointer from my neighbours.. haha. well, a poor massage is like a bad sex.. lol. STOP! stop inferring!! ok, i am blushing (face all red) as i told my neighbours about the incident. haha. still, its just the pleasure that he/she derives from the massage.
after consultation, here are some important tips in giving a good massage.
1) head/skull massage
2) neck muscle that extends from behind ear to base of the neck
3) shoulder massage (typical, but its not enough, trust me)
4) muscle between shoulder blade and backbone
5) area behind your shoulder blade and arm
no no area for simple massage..
1) thigh area
2) lower back area
for they are all rather sensitive and ticklish.
important*by the way, for people who cant seems to really put their hands on their parnter/friend, i mean opposite gender.. please divert ur attention elsewhere, use less sensitive area like ur elbow rather than your hands.. Wouldn't be that touchy and certainly more strength compared to your hands. spoken from the experts.*
so people.. its time to you to pick up some pointers from this short write up.. and have some practical. its important to check with the person regarding the strength, area. MAKE sure he/she feels comfortable with it, feeling satisfied. the contented and relaxed expression. whahaha. don't take if to heart should the person fall asleep, it just another sign of great massage = sex.. lol. i still cant believe i actually wrote this out.
we all need more practises.
ps. 5 cents worth of pointers from derek and kennard.. thanks for sharing though. haha.
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